Run of the mill penetrative thrusting is good in all kinds of ways. It's time-tested, and feels reliably good for most people. But you can make your partner last longer plus up your orgasmic potential if you move beyond the old in and out.
Sex positions such as Doggy-style and Missionary: two of the best loved and most used sex positions the world over; and yet, many couples are complaining of boredom in the bedroom. Are you one of these people? Luckily, there are many ways to spice things up in your love life; from using some sensual sex toys, to getting your taste buds involved with some delicious tasting props.
In practice, tantra is about enlightenment: to transcend both the sexual and spiritual planes by engaging in deeply meditative, spontaneous, and intimate sex. When you learn and practice tantra, you become more in-tune with your body, what gives it pleasure, and the way it feels pleasure. Plus, the energies you channel during tantric sex flow throughout your body and can intensify your orgasm.
It can be fast and passionate, slow and romantic, and just as emotional as it is physical. The fix: Carve out some time to have the kind of sex that reminds you of why your relationship is so special. Being touched in a loving way will raise your levels of oxytocin also known as the love hormone and PEA a neurotransmitter associated with bondingsays Deb Laino, DHSa Delaware-based relationship therapist and certified sex educator.
Back pain can make sex more agony than ecstasy. Studies across the globe have found that most people with back pain have significantly less sex because it triggers or worsens their pain. Motions like thrusting or arching your back, or even just supporting your weight, can make sex excruciating.
Certain sex positions facilitate higher levels of emotional intimacy. These positions allow a couple to go beyond their sensory experience, intensifying the intimacy of their encounters and imbuing them with emotional meaning. Eye contact, kissing, caresses, trusting, watching.
You'll feel like you're falling in love all over again. As a clinical sexologist, these are a few of the sex positions that I instruct couples to do as part of the home assignment exercises. This is a wonderful position because the couple is face to face, kissing and slow passionate penetration can take place. The man sits cross-legged and leans back supporting himself with both arms behind him or leaning against a wall.
For a lot of people, sex and love don't have to coincide, so sex doesn't always have to be intimate. Hell, even when you're in love and in a long-term relationship, you don't always want it to be intimate in bed. I mean, who has ever had a quickie before work and turned to their partner and said, "Now that's intimacy!