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Delayed ejaculation — sometimes called impaired ejaculation — is a condition in which it takes an extended period of sexual stimulation for men to reach sexual climax and release semen from the penis ejaculate. Some men with delayed ejaculation are unable to ejaculate at all. Delayed ejaculation can be temporary or a lifelong problem.
But what if you found it difficult or impossible to climax? Men suffering with DE tend to still feel sexual desire and arousal; they can get and maintain an erection. This can leave you feeling starved of closeness to your partner as well as missing that release of tension and subsequent relaxation, which reaching orgasm can bring.
I've recently started seeing someone on a casual basis and I'm puzzled by something I have never before encountered - he doesn't ejaculate or orgasm! He assures me this is "normal" for him and that he likes our time together. I am very open-minded but it makes me feel strange and I worry he may have some underlying issue that he should get checked out. That said, it makes the sex amazing for me.
AskMen may get paid if you click a link in this article and buy a product or service. While there are plenty of men who worry about not being able to um, rise to the occasion, there can also be the opposite issue when it's time to end the show. Believe it or not, plenty of men struggle with the inability orgasm, making for a less that satisfying end to intercourse.
A while back I asked if women enjoy sex even when they don't orgasm. Now I'm wondering if sex is bad for a woman if the guy doesn't orgasm. I'll be completely candid here: I don't orgasm often during oral sex or intercourse.
As year-old L. James is far from alone. Some of these guys have difficulties because of situational conditions.
Yeah, right. The reality is that male orgasm is not a guarantee. Have you struggled with orgasm for your entire life, or have there been recent changes? Has it been easier to orgasm with certain partners, but not others?
Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Many women have difficulty reaching orgasm, and some even find it impossible.
I'm just gonna throw this one out there. Why do some young, perfectly healthy guys have trouble coming? Usually, girls complain about the opposite problem: They wish sex would last longer than say, ahem, two minutes. But what if the reverse was true, and his chances of reaching orgasm were as likely as spotting a unicorn on your front yard wearing a bolero?