BuzzFeed asked people exactly what they do when they masturbate. Here are their open, honest, and very creative answers. Since it's a private activity, people are free to be as creative and weird as they want to get themselves off — but have no way of knowing what other people are doing.
While getting our own rocks off is never a chore, sometimes we want the extra indulgence of visual aide to heighten the mood. Taye Diggs and Angela Bassett in the shower is my 1 go-to for life. I could write a dissertation about the power of that guy, but that first video had me shook.
And so we proceeded to set up a time and a place. And sitting at my computer with only breaks for chores was leaving me itching for something… pleasurable to do… before going on this date. After three months of investing time and emotional energy into the same person, the thought of dating someone new felt like a complete waste of time.
Like many women, I'm guilty of sometimes forgetting to masturbate when I'm in a relationship. Sure, it'll still happen occasionally — like when he's out of town, or working on a Sunday — but by and large, I've tended to reserve my solo play for times when I'm single. Which, I've come to believe, is a big mistake on my part.
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The idea of masturbating in front of someone else can, understandably, be a little bit daunting. It can make you feel vulnerable, and maybe even a little bit silly or shameful. But, there's nothing to be ashamed of - and it can also build intimacy and connection between you and a sexual partner.
I love sexbut if I had to choose between touching myself and letting my husband do it for me, more often than not, I'm going solo. After nearly 20 years of marriage, I have no reservations about owning what I want and how I want it in the bedroom, and doing it on my own when necessary. But owning this fact about myself was no easy feat. My husband and I met when we were 16 and married two years later — so in the early days of our marriage, when we were both young and uninitiated in the ways of good sex, I masturbated in secret.
Sometimes, when you've said it's okay When I'm in bed alone during the day My hand begins to pull at my breast Flicking and rubbing hard at the nipple. My mind is on you as I feel my juices flow And as I spread my legs to touch myself I wish you were there watching me play. I find my clit and rub around as my fingers drown In the river of my desire.